THERE is a saying, “Money makes the world go round.” There is some truth to that statement. After all, it takes money to buy food, obtain clothing, and pay for rent or buy a home. The role of money in society is incredibly important. If money was removed as a means of exchange, we would be in a state of panic and war within a month.
Of course, money has its limitations. Norwegian poet Arne Garborg said that with money “you can buy food, but not appetite; medicine, but not health; soft beds, but not sleep; knowledge, but not wisdom; glitter, but not beauty; splendor, but not warmth; fun, but not joy; acquaintances, but not friends; servants, but not faithfulness.” ( Smiles)
When a person maintains a balanced view of money, regarding it as a means to an end rather than an end in itself, it is possible to enjoy a greater measure of contentment.
Note that it is the love of money, not money itself—that brings harm. Indeed, an inordinate focus on money can drive a wedge between friends and between family members.
MONEY AND PREJUDICE
A distorted view of money can cause people to become judgmental. For example, a wealthy person might assume that those who are poor are too lazy to better themselves. Or a person with lesser means might hastily conclude that those who have more are materialistic or greedy.
HOW DO YOU VIEW MONEY?
A self-examination might alert you to the need to acquire a balanced view of money. For example, ask yourself the following questions.
- Am I attracted to get-rich-quick schemes?
- Do I find it difficult to be generous with my money?
- Do I tend to make friends with people who constantly talk about money and the things they own?
- Do I resort to lying or to other unethical practices in order to make money?
- Does money make me feel important?
- Am I always thinking about money?
- Is my attitude toward money adversely affecting my health and family life?Cultivate generosity by giving to others
If you answered yes to any of those questions, make an effort to reject materialistic thoughts and temptations. Avoid friendships with people who attach too much importance to money and possessions. Instead, seek association with people who place greater value on high moral principles than on possessions.
Never allow the love of money to take root in your heart. Rather, keep money in its place—always subordinate to friends, family, and your emotional and physical health. By doing so, you will show that you have a balanced view of money.